the agonies of trying to find love do not go away when love is formed

when relationships do get formed, agonies do not fade away, as people tend to feel bored or anxious or angry in them, have painful arguments and conflicts, or they begin to doubt themselves and the other

love is a silly thing because it is the self willingness to give your being away to a relationship that is destined to fail you from the start whether it is from death or disillusionment or heartbreak or any other circumstance that can break people apart yet we still justify to ourselves that this person is wholly worth the risk

our beloved must be treated as a unencumbered and unconstrained subject - another human that is to be truly loved and desired for who they are and also who they could become

the ability to expand and grow with and through one another

love is nonetheless a good venture for anyone who wishes to grow and learn about themselves

in attempting to secure our own self image through another we create a image or fantasy of that other in an attempt to possess another

you must see people for there own potentialities and your own potentialities rather then in the image you have crafted of them

love emerges through the intense curiosity for another and how could you truly know someone who you supposedly love if you limit them for your own gratification

true love is unconditional but to flourish it requires a ongoing commitment to constructive struggle and change

we open ourselves up to another understanding that we may be changed as a result

why is there such a big post surge today

copy and pasting because im lazy but

a giant fly landed on my laptop screen and i freaked out and threw it to the ground. my laptops charging port got moved out of its socket and the laptop shell couldnt close. i opened up my laptop, pushed the charging port back in, and thank the LORD it still works. however the holders that hold the screws in at the top of the laptop broke, so the top cant be screwed but the bottom is fine. the gap only opens up if i hold my laptop midair so i might need to get some electrical tape to hold it. its times like these where i wonder if the lord has directly blessed me, without my laptop i would die

apparently the beatles used to jerk off together? so im never listening to those weirdos again. i learned this through one of those dumb things that blink-182 shouts in the middle of songs at their concerts. (yes i listen to western music sometimes, but not often)

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